Looking around me I sometimes wonder what people are thinking. I’m talking about body art. I have four piercings, one tattoo and 3 tattoo’s in design phase. So I am the last person to tell you not to do it. But please think about it before you do it. I see a lot of young girls with tattoo’s that make them look slutty. Very young girls wearing low-cute shirts showing half of their breasts with a tattoo on one of both breasts.
A person has a tattoo for his or her own reasons but most of the times he/she wants to be able to show it to the world. A tattoo on the breast automatically lets the spectator look at the breasts.
Like most men I like breasts, but part of the attraction is the fact that we are not suppose to look at them directly. The “hey-look-at-my-tattoo/breast” tattoo gets rid of that part.
It also sends the message like “my breasts are for public showing, wanna know what else is public”.

For some reason a lot of these girls also act the part. I mean the part of cheap girl that flirts with everybody, grinds her body against every boy. In short play the slut part. Just to be liked and to be part of the group. What is bout to happen is the girl actually becomes the group slut or when somebody wants to do something she backs off and gets in a fight.
In those cases I have to say “If you don’t want to be treated like a prostitute, don’t dress and act like one”.

Now back to tattoo’s and piercings. What is sexy and what is slutty?? Just remember this is my opinion.
Navel piercing is so common nowadays. I like it but it’s not extra sexy or slutty. A tongue piercing is sexy. But only for women. In my opinion tongue and navel piercings are feminine not something a guy should have.
I don’t really like the Madonna piercing. It’s in the upper lip about the place where Madonna has her beauty mark. Sometimes they put it under the lip. To me that looks slutty.
Nipple piercings. Now those are sexy. It’s a sexy pleasant surprise if the bra comes of and there is a little jewel. Of course not if everybody has seen it.

Now back to tattoo’s. Like I said earlier Tattoo’s on the breasts are not good.
Lets put it like this. All the parts of the female body that’s forbidden for just any guy to see, stare at or touch. That means breasts, ass, and crouch area. Tattoo’s on the lower back are very common now. They could be sexy depending on the design. Tattoo’s on the belly aren’t slutty, but aren’t sexy either. I think they are just weird.

Now about the designs. Names. Why do girls tattoo their boyfriend names?? It looks just like branding. Years ago slaves used to be branded by their masters. A Tattoo of a boyfriend is the same as letting every body “He owns me”.
It’s a whole different story if you tattoo the name of your child on you.
A tattoo on a girl should still be feminine. A few people are gonna jump up for that remark. But I said feminine not weak or submissive. Women, designs etc can be feminine and strong. Just look at Xena. A female reaper or a Gothic tinkerbell as strong, sexy and still feminine symbols.

Basically what I’m saying is, think about what you are doing, if you put a tattoo and what kind of message it send out to the rest of us. It’s not like you can remove it anytime you want.

When I get married you guys are welcom to give me the some treatment. But be sure to get some guys that can restrain me. I wont be as passive as Jean was.

Miss Suriname
Last friday the miss Suriname pageant was held. I’m gonna give you my impressions of what happened. Important to know is that I did not attend the pageant. So I’m giving you the view of someone that did not see it from the front row.
There is a reason why I wasn’t there. The publicity they did caused me not to wanna go. First of all they made a hip-hop music clip with all the contestants wearing bikini’s shaking their asses and basically just be the cheap eye candy you see in most of the hip-hop clips. Every body that knows me knows that I love women, I love the way they look and I love them in bikini’s. BUT I do not want to see a girl that is gonna represent my country to portrait herself as a cheap bikini hip-hop eye candy girl.
A miss should be elegant. She should be a example and being a cheap music video girl is not an example.

I addressed this to the organisation in a mail and I got a reaction. The person reacting to my mail only reacted to the bikini part. She told me that miss USA competed in a episode of fear factor. And she was eating cockroaches etc. Did that make here any less of a miss??
Well I saw that episode. Miss USA was not there to portrait herself as cheap eye candy. She was a contestant that had to face difficult obstacles. Completing those obstacles was being an example and an inspiration.

I don’t really know what the qualifications are to become a contestant in the pageant, but after looking at these girl I think they need to re-evaluate the qualifications.

Another reason I couldn’t take the organisation seriously was the website. A website for a miss pageant that is gonna choose a girl that’s gonna represent our country in the miss universe competition can not look like this. No the design is acceptable but there are a lot of death links. The most important link is a death one. You click on contact and you get a 404 page. This means the page you want to view does not exist. There are a couple of these death links. In the photo gallery section they did something no web developer does anymore. They used frames.
For some strange reason the news section is blog with a design that doesn’t remotely resemble the original design. With no link back to the main site.
Now a organisation that does international pageants and with all the sponsors they have, I would guess they could pay for a designer that does a better job. Nobody can tell me there was no money for a better designer. A normal ticket cost SRD100 and a VIP ticket was U$400. U$ 400 is a months salary for a lot of people. A lot of people don’t even earn that much a month.

I started to watch the pageant live on TV but the lack of quality bothered me so much I turned off the TV. Here are a couple of examples of what I saw. There was a bad cheap Brazilian dance act. And if I say bad I mean bad. I had the feeling I could do better and I can’t samba.
There also was a belly dance act. Well in my time in Holland I got to know a few belly dancers and they showed me what they could do. This girl was only doing the basics.
They girls themselves where not properly prepared for the questions round and every one of them chocked. I heard the dumbest answers.
The next part I missed but my sister told me about this. The vice president of the organisation had to come on stage to tell the audience to stop booing etc. The audience expected a lot more from this show and they did not get their money’s worth so I can understand why they acted like that.

The girl that won the pageant did deserve it. She was the best of all the bad contestants. From the beginning you could tell she had what it takes. I only wished she could have won the crown is a pageant that deserved to be called a pageant.

I am seriously wondering how this organisation can still have the right to hold the miss suriname pageant. What can be don to revoke that right and give it to a organisation that can give us a pageant we deserve. No I don’t believe I can do it. I know I can’t. But there has to be someone that can and wants to do a better job.

The website of the organisation: http://www.misssuriname.org
You can see what I mean by a bad site with death links.

Why an I talking about this?? well because I just had myself a little Children of the corn marathon last weekend. And I was thinking. Those old horror movies really scared the bejezus out of me. The new horror movies just don’t seem to do it for me.
So what is it about these old once?? The suspense. The Story.
The old Horrors have a good scary story. So the movie is not only scary in a visual aspect, but the story itself without all the blood and gore is also scary. In this case Friday the 13th is an exception. Because that is just a lot of blood and gore. But not a bad movie if you like horror/slasher.
Today’s Horrors are more about giving us the scary visual effects. The stories aren’t really scary. The visual effects are.
The movie companies have noticed this, I think that is the reason they green light all the remakes. Remakes that fail miserably.
I think if by some reason you NEED to remake a movie, get the creative team that made the original a success. Of course using moderne effects is cool.

I’ve heard there will me another “nightmare on elm street” movie. A reboot of the series. Now I’m asking myself, is this a new part of the series?? Or are they gonna remake the original movies? I hope it’s the first. To bad Robert Englund is not gonna be playing Freddy. I don’t know if there is an actor that is gonna be as scary and fun to watch as Robert Englund in the rol of freddy.
Here is hoping they do a good job.

Yep I’ve starting Tweeting. For those who don’t know what twitter is.

Twitter is a mirco-blogging service. You have a profile and send short messages to it, 140 characters. In a lot of social networks you have a status option. Myspace, Facebook etc have this feature. Twitter is just this feature. Now when I came in contact with this service I though I would never know what to do with it. My brother in The Netherlands started using it. And because of him I started using it to. We keep each other up to date about our daily activities using twitter. And yes it’s public so everybody can follow us.

I think the best way to use twitter is to install one those small twitter programs on a mobile phone with internet capabilities. That way you can tweet whenever something comes to mind. My brother has a Iphone and with his account he can use twitter anywhere anytime. My phone is a htc touch the same model I lost a while ago (Losing a Limb) The phone has internet capabilities but the telecom accounts with internet here are a little to expensive for my tast. So I have another option. My phone also has the capability to use a wireless network. So I added my phone to my very secured wireless network at work. Being the Systems administrator I can do it . At home I just plug my phone onto the computer. And having adsl that computer is online 24/7.
Every time my brother updates his twitter I know it within 4 minutes. That is if I’m home or at work.  I’m following my brother and a few friends, but my brother is the one using it the most. (little hint to the other guys. You know who you are)

So if you want to follow my tweets there are two things you can do. My tweets are displayed at the right of my blog. So just come to my website often. Or if you have a twitter account you can add me http://twitter.com/rafiekslvr
Try it.

The prayer:

“Lo there do I see my Father
Lo there do I see my Mother, my Sisters and my Brothers
Lo there do I see the line of my people
Back to the beginning
Calling me to join Them
Bidding me to take my place among Them
In the Halls of Valhalla
Where the brave
May live
Forever.”

Here is the soundclip of that movie. If you are reading this from my website and not the rss you can just click on the player and you’ll hear it. I don’t really know how it is transfered to rss.

Here is a list of movies based on games I’ve seen

* = I haven’t played this game

So most of the movies based on games did not do very good.
There are a few exceptions. But not enough for me to start loving this movie genre.
There are rumours about a upcoming “prince of persia” and a “god of war” movie. I love these games. Let us hope they are gonna do the games good.

Temptation is a woman and her name is coffee.

After a strange, little difficult start I am convinced this year is gonna be a good year. Ofcourse I have some new years resolutions. I’ll stop smoking; Very easy since I don’t smoke
To be serious, this year is the year that I’m getting my self back in shape. To this remark me brother would say “Round is a shape”
You know what I hate about my brother. He can eat like a pig, He could probably eat a pig, and he gains an ounce in weight. I only look at food and I gain a pound.
My resolution is also to swim the marathon in two years. So I have to start now. For those who don’t know what I mean. Every year on or around 1st of July there is a swimming marathon. It’s about 18 kilometres in the Surinamese river. Not an easy task. You do need to be in shape to be able to do it. So that is where the first resolution comes in.
The last 4 years before I moved to The Netherlands I was a lifeguard at this event. Now I’m back in Suriname and I want to swim it. Wish me luck.