Pretty woman….. not really
Posted By Rafiek on 14 mei 2010
Warning this post is rated PG-16 by me.
Looking around me I sometimes wonder what people are thinking. I’m talking about body art. I have four piercings, one tattoo and 3 tattoo’s in design phase. So I am the last person to tell you not to do it. But please think about it before you do it. I see a lot of young girls with tattoo’s that make them look slutty. Very young girls wearing low-cute shirts showing half of their breasts with a tattoo on one of both breasts.
A person has a tattoo for his or her own reasons but most of the times he/she wants to be able to show it to the world. A tattoo on the breast automatically lets the spectator look at the breasts.
Like most men I like breasts, but part of the attraction is the fact that we are not suppose to look at them directly. The “hey-look-at-my-tattoo/breast” tattoo gets rid of that part.
It also sends the message like “my breasts are for public showing, wanna know what else is public”.
For some reason a lot of these girls also act the part. I mean the part of cheap girl that flirts with everybody, grinds her body against every boy. In short play the slut part. Just to be liked and to be part of the group. What is bout to happen is the girl actually becomes the group slut or when somebody wants to do something she backs off and gets in a fight.
In those cases I have to say “If you don’t want to be treated like a prostitute, don’t dress and act like one”.
Now back to tattoo’s and piercings. What is sexy and what is slutty?? Just remember this is my opinion.
Navel piercing is so common nowadays. I like it but it’s not extra sexy or slutty. A tongue piercing is sexy. But only for women. In my opinion tongue and navel piercings are feminine not something a guy should have.
I don’t really like the Madonna piercing. It’s in the upper lip about the place where Madonna has her beauty mark. Sometimes they put it under the lip. To me that looks slutty.
Nipple piercings. Now those are sexy. It’s a sexy pleasant surprise if the bra comes of and there is a little jewel. Of course not if everybody has seen it.
Now back to tattoo’s. Like I said earlier Tattoo’s on the breasts are not good.
Lets put it like this. All the parts of the female body that’s forbidden for just any guy to see, stare at or touch. That means breasts, ass, and crouch area. Tattoo’s on the lower back are very common now. They could be sexy depending on the design. Tattoo’s on the belly aren’t slutty, but aren’t sexy either. I think they are just weird.
Now about the designs. Names. Why do girls tattoo their boyfriend names?? It looks just like branding. Years ago slaves used to be branded by their masters. A Tattoo of a boyfriend is the same as letting every body “He owns me”.
It’s a whole different story if you tattoo the name of your child on you.
A tattoo on a girl should still be feminine. A few people are gonna jump up for that remark. But I said feminine not weak or submissive. Women, designs etc can be feminine and strong. Just look at Xena. A female reaper or a Gothic tinkerbell as strong, sexy and still feminine symbols.
Basically what I’m saying is, think about what you are doing, if you put a tattoo and what kind of message it send out to the rest of us. It’s not like you can remove it anytime you want.
